Member Benefits

With instant messaging, status updates, member feeds, and more, there are plenty of ways to get to know some of our members!

Here's how it all works...

When you first join us, you become a free member. As a free member you can create a profile, add a photo, search for people by county, create your favourites list and send unlimited winks. You'll also receive an email if someone adds you as one of their favourites, winks at you, or sends you a message.

If you decide to become a full member, you will also be able to:

  • Send and receive private messages
  • Chat online with instant messenger
  • See who's looked at your profile
  • Add multiple photos to your profile
  • Video chat
  • Create and read dating diaries
  • Create and watch video profiles

In-Person Dating Safety Advice

You can upgrade from free to full membership by accessing 'My Account' when you login, or click here to be taken to the membership page once you are logged in. If you have any questions about your membership, or have any trouble using our dating site , our dedicated support team are on hand Monday to Friday from 9am to 5:30pm and will be happy to help you.